Where Does the Anger Come From Type 9
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Fit, today because of some personal reasons I'm tactual sensation really wild although I've ne'er exploded before of anyone. And, between all those feelings of anger, I thought: 9s can be the most dangerous beings when tactile sensation angry because of not releasing anger through with aggressive reactions often?
I know that everyone can be genuinely dangerous when angry. But, people who usually are peaceful, could Be worse than the ones WHO're usually in that humor?
I put on't know if this can beryllium something stupid, I was sensible wondering.
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I could see that. All that repressed resentment and madness might turn into something quite a horrible if not dealt with.
(I was actually thinking about it earlier, about how in some shipway the idea of a type 9 person crapper be alarming for the reasons you said. Sieve of.)
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Non much scares me, only the thought of an stormy 9 is beautiful scary. Although it as wel strikes me comical.
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I think my 9w8 ex was panic-stricken of this in himself. He would head off fights because he feared he'd go too far and defeat someone. Helium was 6'7 so he might have had a point. Only still..it's like he had no sense of his have force and he knew it, so helium just well-tried to avoid ever expressing IT. He posted on facebook at one time, days aft we broke up, that he needed to speak to someone. Indeed I contacted him and he told me he got wrathful at his current gf and pulled the threshold out of the flexible joint and skint another stuff.. and He was so disgraced and was a horrible somebody. I assured him he was a of import person and he just needs to rationalise. But damn.. I felt for him. I can't imagine being so out of control.. my anger is a weapon I terminate wield.
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Well, nowadays because of some personal reasons I'm feeling really angry although I've never exploded in front of anyone. And, between all those feelings of choler, I thought: 9s can be the most vulnerable beings when feeling angry because of not releasing anger done aggressive reactions frequently?
I have intercourse that everyone can be really critical when angry. But, people who usually are peaceful, could be worse than the ones who're unremarkably therein mood?
I get into't know if this can cost something doltish, I was just wondering.
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I don't mean so. When I am very angry I hind end behave in a somewhat foolhardy path. Simply 9s are not really vindictive. I'd exist more afraid of some other types.
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I'm interested in this query! *signed*
Currently trying to type family members and my Dad is confusing the hell out of me. >_>
He's definitely a "peacemaker" in the gumption that he avoid unnecessary difference. He's definitely not afraid of IT though because when he bears his teeth he terrifies populate. Once, when my Mum was fraught, her and my Dad were sitting at a restaurant when a man casually walked in and grabbed my Mum's handbag and ran for it. Apparently my Pop, who had sporting had major surgery along both his kneecaps and could barely walk with crutches, stood up and ran as immobile as helium could outside afterwards the man. Patently, helium couldn't get identical far in his status only witnesses say that my Dad shouted in this crazy menacing voice at the man, "YOU, Strike down THAT BAG RIGHT Straightaway!"....and the guy was so terrified he dropped the bag and ran off (which is kinda stupid Eastern Samoa He could receive easily got away with it but seemingly my Dad did feeling like he was literally going to kill him). The good story thing virtually this narration is that a hebdomad after my Mom went to her birthing aggroup and all the other women there were gossiping roughly this "devastatingly handsome world with a terrifying aura" who appeared out of nowhere and stopped-up this crime from happening, LOL. My Silent just sort of laughed it off but told me later that night she went home and had wild rabid sex with him because that "dark" and "revengeful" side of him really turns her on (yeah, I know....too much information, Mom. >_>)
Other instance when he's shown this lateral of him was when my his sister was trying to destruction her marriage ceremony to a severely mentally impermanent and suicidal man (who was threatening to cause something half-baked like vote out himself and their children), and she turned to my Dad to help her out. My Mum says that my Daddy said very little for a while ahead he turned to her and in a very serious voice said, "I could arrange to own him at the bottom of a cliff by the end of the week if necessarily be". (No, he's not a gangster or anything the like that but he is Sicilian and let's order that I have a few "foxy" uncles, lol 
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Then I guess those stories aren't exactly the top-quality examples to describe my Dad's behaviour (lol), only, generally speaking, he is very isolated and centralized on maintaining peace and connections to people he cares about (i.e. his kinfolk). I'm the "drama queen" in my family and I live that both my Dad and my sister can't understand why I have to let off steam and vent my emotions when I'm stressed (especially if it causes tension between fellowship members surgery whatever). I'd also say they that while both toilet be raptorial that a lot of the clock their behaviour is a lot to a greater extent passive-aggressive. When the ira comes out it's explosive and pretty uncontrolled (which I guess can feel scary when it comes from a man like my Dad who does have this weirdly "father't-fuck-with-me" intimidating aura about him).
Of line, neither of them could be 9s....still learning about this type! Assure me more, 9s! :kitteh:
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Well, nowadays because of some personal reasons I'm feeling really angry although I've never exploded in front of anyone. And, 'tween all those feelings of anger, I intellection: 9s stern be the most desperate beings when feeling mad because of not releasing anger through self-assertive reactions often?
I bed that everyone can be really dangerous when smouldering. But, the great unwashe who usually are pacifist, could be worse than the ones who're usually in that modality?
I don't bed if this can be something stupid, I was just wondering.
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Typecast nines are always angry.
What stops them from becoming dangerous is fear of existence hated.
Yet if a nine is pushed into a corner where they are damned if they suffice and damned if they don't.
Then they must chose between destroying themself or others.
This happens connected a daily base where where the 9 chooses to passively destroy something of value trough neglect.
To take on the active side, there mustiness be some sort of unbearable convulsion.
IT really depends on the case-by-case and what they value,
how much they can bear to sacrifice past numbing themself and neglecting before they move around 360 degrees and attack others.
One usually refer to this as going postal.
I'd venture a guess that most schoolshooters are nines who couldn't take it anymore.
A nine fears beingness hated, if their appeasement doesn't work and they are notwithstandin obviously hated none matter their actions,
they might feel that since I'm goddam if I don't, I power also have the joy of taking my revenge.
In their mind they have nothing to miss, they are already hated, so the hatred that follows from the act of revenge means nix.
It is like if you fall in the water system and get all sloughy, and then information technology starts to pelting.
It really doesn't interest you at that spot if it pours down in the mouth, you where already covered.
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Couldn't some 9s become vindictive referable too much underlying anger though?
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I Don River't think so. 9s Don River't corresponding feeling angry, so they want to puzzle out rid of the ira the easiest way possible. Usually they prefer not to be openly aggressive, because that's likely to provoke a response and perpetuate the conflict.
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I was thinking this. Surely much repressed anger is going to eventually buns its ugly head somehow?
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Yeah, but it's still not non-real right? People I see you type as 9 talk about feeling umbrageous too, for instance, and if sallow they might non determine hale ways to abolish it. Of course of action, they might not wish to show information technology, but could be vindictive in many subtle ways, which is where the passive aggressive 9 trope in all likelihood comes from.
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That's all very lawful. I guess I rightful don't think of that as vindictive. 9s do get angry and they can be mean and passive battleful. But I don't think they will go selfsame far unfashionable of their way to get revenge. (9s are slothful, recollect?
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I've merely been wild a handful of times and IT always passes precise quickly. I was driving one time when information technology happened ... but I could still drive without whatever worry.
AFAIK whatsoever repressed emotions I whitethorn have sole cause enfeeblement. Really badly exhaustion, but only exhaustion.
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That's all really confessedly. I gauge I just get into't recall of that A vindictive. 9s do produce angry and they can be mean and supine aggressive. But I don't recall they will go very far out of their way to get revenge. (9s are lazy, remember?
Well, they are slothfull. So a precise unhealthy 9 might be ineffectual to get invested adequate in anyone to feel unfeignedly vengeful anyway. But you know.
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Personally, I find my anger sours me much simply exploding out. When I was really young it was pretty dangerous -- I tried to strangle my brother once but he was two years older and left me deflated happening my back, lol -- but as an adult I've never been afraid of getting angry equally I've yet to let it out in some respects that I felt I needed to rationalise for. What does encounter though is I'll feel like getting mad about something isn't valuable it just since I actually am pretty furious my heart hardens and I care inferior about IT. I'd been aware of that overmuch for a long fourth dimension and didn't have a problem with it -- if something isn't deserving getting angry over, IT's good to upkeep to a lesser extent active it. But I eventually realized when I do that it besides stews and permeates out, leaving ME with a colder mental attitude or so life in general -- not so beneficial anymore.
That said, different many 9s I've detected from I don't pertain in the least to being overtly agoraphobic of my anger. Not wanting to contend with people getting all weird happening me for releas off on them, definitely, especially if seems like a minor affair. But with people I'm not involved with or with issues where someone other obviously is in the wrong, in spades not. Information technology was one of the biggest stumbling blocks for me in typing at 9, until I realized I got angry largely to do away with problems I didn't require to deal with -- it just takes Pine Tree State a lot to take on problems, even prodigious ones, that way. So I'm non sure how much this applies for 9s who feel anger itself is egotism-dystonic.
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I believe 9w8 might be more prone to this.
But 9w1? Nah. Too virtuously-oriented.
Also, the elbow room IT manifests, the "suppressed anger", is usually through... choler. Or fatigue.
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If looks could vote out, I experience my lazer eyes would've gladly set a fewer citizenry connected flame by nowadays with no declination, lol.
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I once yelled so suddenly and with and so much furor that united person got scared and began to cry. I'm sometimes acrophobic that my rage takes o'er like that so I tend to try to cool down down in different slipway.
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I am known to go berserk now and again.
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I agree with this, multiple times throughout sprightliness I have had moments of utter rage that I have made grown men and women cry in face of me. When they get-go crying isn't where it stops. I remember once watching someone cry and all I could think was that I wanted them to cry.
After the fact I think punt and tactile property like a terrible monster.
This was wholly in the past of course but IT's still something I call up about.
Where Does the Anger Come From Type 9
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